Tuesday, October 23, 2018

Best-Ever Books for Social Skills: You Get What You Get

Ever have a child that whines if he didn't get to be first?

Or she pouts when she didn't get the color crayon she wanted or didn't win the game? Yup, you know the one I'm talking about. You need this adorable book by Julie Gassman, You Get What You Get. (and you don't throw a fit).

Best-Ever Books for Speech Therapy! This adorable story is terrific for teaching social skills in speech therapy. Melvin doesn't always deal with disappointment well. Until he learns about this terrible rule... read this blog post to learn more!  #speechsprouts #socialskills #speechtherapy #storybooks

This is one the best-ever books for teaching acceptance that we can't always get exactly what we want.

Melvin is a young squirrel who doesn't deal well with disappointment. If he doesn't get enough chocolate chips in his cookie or loses his turn in a game, watch out! It's full-on meltdown time. 

When Melvin starts school, he finds out he really hates his teacher's favorite rule: You get what you get and you don't throw a fit!

Because of this terrible rule, Melvin can't throw a fit at school if he's last in line, or has to use crayons instead of markers.

But at least his family doesn't know about this awful rule. Until...he accidentally lets it slip!

Much to Melvin's dismay, his astounded family is delighted when they learn about the rule. And there is no going back. 

Now the rule applies at home too. He can't stomp his feet, shout or flail around. Nope. Not even when his sister wants to watch a show he doesn't. Because, well...you know. You get what you get and you don't throw a fit. 

You Get What You Get and You Don't Throw a Fit is the start of a great social skills lesson.

We read the book and I ask my students, have you ever seen someone who acts like that when they didn't get what they wanted? They always nod yes, and tell tales of other students. (Even if they've been known to throw fits themselves!) 

Of course, just like Melvin, some children struggle with handling disappointment more than others.  

The result can be lots of negative consequences and sometimes even social isolation as peers lose patience or become annoyed with crying and whining. 

Talking about Melvin's squirrelly behavior make it non-threatening to discuss, rather than talking about the student's own behavior.

So we dive in a bit deeper. Can everyone be first in line? Win the game? Sit in a certain spot? Play with that favorite toy? No, it's just not possible, is it?

So we make lists.
  1. We list situations where a child might feel disappointed. 
  2. We list inappropriate ways to react. Oh, no! We would never behave that way. Why not? 
  3. We talk about and list social consequences. Teachers get mad when you are interrupting the class and you get in trouble. Maybe you lose a privilege. Friends won't want to play a game with you if they know you'll throw a fit. 
  4. What should we do instead?
A great way to wrap up the lesson is to have the children draw a child (or a squirrel!) throwing a fit over something, then have them draw what they might have done instead. 

I am always looking for great speech therapy books, so leave a comment if you have a favorite!

I hope you get a chance to read You Get What You Get with your students. I think you'll love it.

Until next time my friends, 




Saturday, October 6, 2018

14 Songs and Fingerplays for Fall in Preschool Speech Therapy

Songs and fingerplays are your best friend for teaching language in preschool speech therapy this fall.


A round-up of fabulous fall songs and fingerplays for preschool speech therapy plus where to find the best youtube videos to teach them. Speech and language targets and more autumn speech and language activities are listed for your fall themes. #speechsprouts #speechandlanguage #preschool #fallpreschoolactivities #fingerplays
Five Little Pumpkins storytelling set

Do you sing with your pre-k students? You should! Children really don't care if you sing like a bird or are a little off-key. They just love the experience. Little ones don't judge, so if you're not already singing with your young students in speech therapy, you need to give it a try.

I'm going to share some of my favorite songs and fingerplays for Autumn, and resources you can use to create a whole themed unit around many of them.


Why should you do fingerplays and songs with preschoolers? 

Music, rhythm, and rhyme are all powerful tools for learning and for getting verbal with your littles. Here are just a few of their magical, language-boosting powers:

1. Catchy but simple music gives children the opportunity to hear and practice the rhythm of language.

What a great way to work on prosody! Repeated practice with pitch, rhythm, and tempo are built right in.

2. Songs and fingerplays that feature repetitive lines give children repeated exposure and practice with vocabulary and sentence structure. 

The repetition makes it easier to learn the lines and for children to participate.

I find my minimally verbal students who rarely speak or those who are at the 1-2 word phrase-level will often sing a few lines along with their favorite songs. It's a great beginning to practice sentence structure, vocabulary, and turn-taking. I sing the first part "The itsy bitsy spider went...." and my students will fill in the blank with a multi-word phrase!

3.  Songs with motions and fingerplays are a great vehicle to combine fine and gross motor movements with language practice. 

It's multi-modal learning in such a fun and natural way. Who didn't love Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes as a child? We sing, we touch and we move- all the while learning to name body parts. Plus, you're burning a little energy and providing movement so the children are ready to attend to the next activity.

4. Practice with rhyme builds phonological awareness. 

Many of our favorite songs and fingerplays rhyme. Rhyme is an important building block for early literacy skills. Sing the song, point out the rhymes, and generate a few more rhymes, all the while having great fun.

5.  Build auditory memory and sequencing skills with cumulative songs and rhymes.

Songs like The Farmer in the Dell or Going on a Lion Hunt require the singer to remember and sequence the previous lines. I love to use pictures, toys or finger puppets as visual aids to help children sequence as they sing.


6. Songs and fingerplays for the preschool crowd often fit in beautifully with theme-based learning. 

Using themes in therapy helps build associations, vocabulary and a rich vocabulary. There are so many great songs and fingerplays that will fit right in.


How do you find those fabulous fall fingerplays and songs?

Youtube: many of the classic songs and fingerplays are have been done as music videos and are on Youtube. Watch the videos to hear the melody and learn the lyrics.

Keep in mind that for children who have speech or language disorders, many available renditions are too fast to allow those who need extra processing time to participate. Look for those that have a slower pace, especially when your students are first learning the rhyme or song.

Check out the numerous websites that have lists of songs and rhymes for preschool.

A quick search will yield tons of sites with fingerplay and song collections for the preschool set. 

Here's a great one: Take a peek at the Preschool Express This is a free site owned and operated by the wonderful Dr. Jean Warren. This site has a music and rhyme station,  plus games, art, and themes galore.

Michigan State University Extension has a Fingerplays and Songs for Childcare Database you can search if you're looking for the words or just something new.

Write down the lyrics of your favorite songs and fingerplays for quick reference when you're ready to use them. 

An index card or page per song will make them easy to organize and find if you alphabetize them.  You might want to keep cards of each season or theme together on a ring for easy reference- ready to go during your session.


How to teach songs and fingerplays to children who have speech and language challenges.

Pre-teach the lyrics and motions at a slower pace.

Learn the song or fingerplay before you watch the video or listen to the music. Your children will have more confidence and success with repeated practice modified for your students. You'll model, cue and scaffold just as you do with sentences and conversational speech.

When learning a new song or fingerplay, sing or recite at a slower pace, and learn the lyrics and motions one step at a time as needed. Once your children learn the fingerplay or song, it's fun to play a slightly faster video and they'll be more ready to follow along.

Use visuals and story-telling pieces

Visuals can include objects, stick puppets, magnet board pieces or the Youtube videos I'll share with you, or all of the above. Visuals help children with sequencing and memory for the lyrics, and re-telling too. 


Favorite fall fingerplays and songs round-up!

 I've gathered some of my favorites for you and I'm including links to many videos and sites where you can learn them and enjoy following along with the videos. 

I love following up the songs and rhymes with themed activities. Take a peek at Speech Sprouts Fall Speech Therapy Activities Pinterest Board for inspiration on activities and crafts.  Save your favorites to your own boards so you can easily find them later.

You may want to save time and have coordinating activities ready to go, so I'll give you a peek at my favorite fall preschool speech and language activity packs too. They always cover a variety of targets so you'll have several sessions full of speech and language activities ready to go for each theme.

Do you see any of your favorites here?


1. Autumn Leaves are Falling Down

This fingerplay teaches fall vocabulary: leaves, falling, rake, pile, jump.

Autumn Leaves by The Kiboomers is a nice slower rendition of the song, good for children with slow processing or apraxia.



Autumn Leaves by The Learning Station The pace is a little faster and has fun harmonies. The cartoon character demonstrates the fingerplay as they sing.


 Find more leaf songs and rhymes plus many more themes at Preschool Express

2. The Farmer in the Dell

Fall is harvest time on the farm and Farmer in the Dell is fantastic for sequencing and auditory memory as children recite each animal sound.

The Farmer in the Dell by Mother Goose Club Playhouse is a cartoon video with the traditional lyrics. It has some slight pauses between verses, which I really like.

Another adorable The Farmer in the Dell video is by Super Simple Songs. This version features a cute redheaded girl farmer and has lyrics about farm activities like milking the cow and planting the seeds.

3. Five Little Pumpkins

Enjoy this slightly spooky fingerplay and talk about ordinal vocabulary (first, second, third....) with your students, then follow up with bright orange pumpkin-related activities.

The Five Little Pumpkins by the Kiboomers is a colorful video done at a slightly slow pace which is terrific for teaching the fingerplay.


For a super pumpkin-filled pack with oodles of speech therapy materials to go with this rhyme, check out my Five Little Pumpkins Speech and Language Activities.

Five Little Pumpkins is just one of the fabulous fall songs and fingerplays for preschool speech therapy in this post. Lisette shares links to the best Youtube videos to teach them, speech and language targets and more autumn speech and language activities for your fall themes. #speechsprouts #speechandlanguage #preschool #fallpreschoolactivities #pumpkintheme #fingerplays
Five Little Pumpkins Speech and Language Activities

4. Way Up High in the Apple Tree

Way up High in the Apple Tree by The Learning Station I love this simple rhyme and fingerplay for teaching the concept of "up high." It's sound-loaded like so many of these rhymes and songs making it great for articulation practice of /w/ (way), /h/(high), and /sm/ (smiling).


For more apple speech and language activities see Apple Apple Reader and Speech Therapy Activities which includes a cute printable cut and paste reader targeting "where?" questions: Apple, Apple where can you be?


Way up High in the Apple Tree is just one of the fabulous fall songs and fingerplays for preschool speech therapy in this post. Lisette shares links to the best Youtube videos to teach them, speech and language targets and more autumn speech and language activities like this apple size sort from Apple Apple Where Can You Be?  #speechsprouts #fingerplays #speechandlanguage #preschool #fallpreschoolactivities #appletheme
Apple, Apple Speech and Language Activities

5. The Owl

I really love The Owl fingerplay from A to Z Kids Stuff. So cute! It has the actions written out for you.

6. The Owl Song

The Owl Song video by The Kiboomers has lots of fun action verbs: open, fly, hop, flap, turn

7. Five Little Turkeys

Five Little Turkeys is the perfect song for your Thanksgiving theme.

The Learning Station's Five Little Turkeys starts out slow and then increases in speed as it repeats.  


My Five Little Turkeys Speech Therapy Activities pack includes this interactive flipbook so your children can make those turkeys "waddle off" as they count down. This pack has activities for the concepts of same and different, matching, prepositions, associations and Where? questions too.

8. I'm a Little Acorn

I'm a Little Acorn This is a lovely video by DanceandBeatsLab that combines the music and motions into gentle dancing movements.

9. Grey Squirrel

Grey Squirrel Sung by the Learning Station will have your little ones swishing their bushy tail as they repeat the song with mama squirrel, daddy squirrel, baby squirrel, grandpa squirrel, and grandma squirrel. Great for the /sw/ blend and "sh" practice (swish, bushy).

10. We're Going on a Bear Hunt

One of my all-time favorites, Bear Hunt has plenty of fun actions, works on sequencing memory and yep- prepositions too. The hunters go through, over around and more. Plus its got a dark cave with a scary bear! 

Try this fun video by The Kiboomers: We're Going on a Bear Hunt


11. Itsy Bitsy Spider

No list is complete without the Itsy Bitsy Spider. Or Eensie Weencie Spider if you prefer. Target sequencing and the prepositions up and down in this gentle little song about a not-so-scary spider.

Itsy Bitsy Spider by Twinkle Little Songs is a pretty rendition of the rhyme. It has a just-right slightly slow pace too.

The Itsy Bitsy Spider by Patty Shukla is a bit faster. It combines the rhyme with body parts vocabulary as that little spider wanders off!


You'll find plenty of spidery speech and language activities to go with the song in this pack: Itsy Bitsy Spider Speech and Language Therapy Unit.


The Itsy Bitsy Spider is just one of the fabulous fall songs and fingerplays for preschool speech therapy in this post. Lisette shares links to the best Youtube videos to teach them, speech and language targets and more autumn speech and language activities for your fall themes. #speechsprouts #fingerplays #speechandlanguage #preschool #fallpreschoolactivities #spidertheme #theitsybitsyspider #nurseryrhymes
Itsy Bitsy Spider Speech and Language Activities


12. Scarecrow, Scarecrow

Scarecrow, Scarecrow by the Learning Station  Turn around, reach up high, bend down low...this is another version that increases in speed each time the verse is repeated.


This fun little build a scarecrow activity can be found in my SK Articulation and Language Activities Pack:

Scarecrow, Scarecrow is just one of the fabulous fall songs and fingerplays for preschool speech therapy in this post. Lisette shares links to the best Youtube videos to teach them, speech and language targets and more autumn speech and language activities like this build a scarecrow game. #speechsprouts #fingerplays #speechandlanguage #preschool #fallpreschoolactivities #spidertheme #scarecrow #nurseryrhymes
Articulation and Language Activities for SK

13. Two Little Blackbirds

This cute little fingerplay targets fast and slow.
Watch Dr. Jean demonstrate Two Little Blackbirds in a video sponsored by ESC Region 13.



 14. The Wheels on the Bus

This classic song and fingerplay targets part-whole by talking about the parts of the bus, repeats "wheels" and "go" for /w/ and /g/ articulation practice and opposites (up and down, open and shut).

Wheels on the Bus by Cocomelon (ABCkidTV) I like the slower pace of this video and love that the bus is a school bus filled with a family and animals too. The cute realistic characters demonstrate the fingerplay motions for you as they go for a bouncy ride.

The Wheels on the Bus by DanceandBeatsLab is a faster and more energetic rendition of the popular fingerplay sure to get those wiggles out for children who can follow a faster pace. It combines the song with fun dance moves your children will love.


I have two resources for you full of speech and language activities for Wheels on the Bus.


Wheels on the Bus Speech and Language Activities include printables plus an interactive no-print story for your tablet or interactive whiteboard.


Wheels on the Bus is just one of the fabulous fall songs and fingerplays for preschool speech therapy in this post. Lisette shares links to the best Youtube videos to teach them, speech and language targets and more autumn speech and language activities like this bus-themed speech activities pack. #speechsprouts #fingerplays #speechandlanguage #preschool #fallpreschoolactivities #spidertheme #wheelsonthebus #nurseryrhymes #backtoschool #bustheme
Wheels on the Bus Speech and Language Activities

This CVC Articulation Smash Mats with Wheels on the Bus lets children enjoy smashing the play dough to make wheels as they practice articulation in initial or final word positions. A BW version works great for dot markers and this activity is no-prep easy peasy.


Wheels on the Bus is just one of the fabulous fall songs and fingerplays for preschool speech therapy in this post. Lisette shares links to the best Youtube videos to teach them, speech and language targets and more autumn speech and language activities like this bus-themed speech activities pack. #speechsprouts #fingerplays #speechandlanguage #preschool #fallpreschoolactivities #spidertheme #wheelsonthebus #nurseryrhymes #backtoschool #bustheme #articulation
Wheels on the Bus Articulation Smash Mats
Read this post for more great ideas to go with this rhyme: Wheels on the Bus: Transportation Week!

I hope you've enjoyed this autumn round-up of songs and fingerplays!


Leave a comment and tell me your favorite songs, rhymes, and fingerplays for fall. I'd love to find some great new ones.


Would you love songs and fingerplays for winter and spring?

I've rounded up some favorites here!

14 Preschool Songs and Fingerplays for Winter Speech Therapy

14 Songs and Fingerplays for Spring Speech Therapy


Add a fall-themed storybook to your session for more language learning.

Check out these fun storybooks:

5 Pumpkin Books That Will Delight Your Preschoolers in Speech Therapy is chock full of pumpkins.

Best-Ever Books for Social Skills: You Get What You Get features Melvin the squirrel.


Until next time my friends, happy fall!